About 2 years ago I started ‘dating’ this girl I met online. Long story short, we kick things off and end up ‘talking’ for a whole year.
But here’s the catch…
No once have I met her in person, seen pictures, or knew very much about her to begin with. Why ? Her excuse was her parents were crazy, she got every privilege taken away from her, she flew out of the country, etc. etc. On my birthday which was right around our 1 year mark, I decided to call it quits. We got into an argument- a minor one. But more than that, it just didn’t feel right anymore- something wasn’t adding up.
Fast-forwarding another year later…
Her and I are nothing but memories instilled in each others mind. I haven’t heard once from her since and she sure as hell didn’t hear a peep from me either. But anyway, we’re both doing our own thing. I go off to Army basic training/ Infantry school for a duration of 4 months, come back home, and pick up where I left off.
Now it wasn’t until three days ago I was browsing my Facebook news feed and stumbled across a picture of a friend with a couple of other females (including the one I used to ‘date’). So I’m like “What the fuck?” she completely fell off the face of the earth, and here she is in a picture with one of my friends.
I did some clicking around and eventually got around to the profile of the girl I used to ‘date’ only to find a fan page with an inconsistent name of the girl I used to ‘date’ and plenty of professional grade modeling photos. I carefully examined damn near every picture on that fan page. Judging by the pictures she has sent me in the past and the pictures that were on this page, I’ve came to the conclusion that the two people were the same people. All tattoos were exactly the same and in fact some of the photos that were on the fan page were the same photos the girl I used to ‘date’ shes sent me in the past.
Same pictures, but different name… Wtf ?
I did more clicking around, compared general information with this model and girl I used to ‘date’, and again came to the conclusion that these two people were not the same people. What really sold me though was a video clip of an interview of this model. By that point it was clear that the girl I used to date was a deceiving, twisted, fucked-up in the head-liar. I then sent a formal message VIA Facebook to inform the model that someone was impersonating her on a whole another level. I’ve also sent a text saying “Did you think I wouldn’t find out?” only to receive a response saying “You’ve got the wrong number” (which was complete bullshit. I even tried calling and no one picked up.) I also even checked this girls tumblr shortly after I messaged her which magically didn’t exist anymore.
Lesson learned, Cagliero.
Although it’s a damn shame I didn’t catch on to things earlier, I’m still thankful that I listened to my intuition eventually. I knew from the beginning that it was too good to be true and that something wasn’t right. None the less, it wont happen again. I’ve learned my lesson.
Dear Alexis Casiple AKA “Girl I used to date”,
If you’re reading this, I’ve showed you a side of me that no one in this world has ever seen before, I’ve made countless sacrifices and inconveniences just to make you happy, and I’ve done everything in my best ability just to give you everything despite always giving you the benefit of the doubt only to realize that you never really existed- that you were a lie this whole time. I know it took a while, but were you really convinced that I would never find out ? All the bullshit lies you’ve fed me and all the excuses you’ve exploited me with ? If there’s one thing you need to know before I wrap this up, it’s that I truly look forward to the day you get what you’ve deserved.
I’ve got a new girl now. Her name’s Karma, and she’s dying to meet you.
'ask' is acting up.